Imperfect
Hi, It’s me again. First off, I’m tired. Actually, exhausted. I really wish people would stop asking “how’re you”, the question itself sends me on mini downward spirals. It’s now been 8 months since my mum died (who’s counting anyway?). I…
Public Displays
Three truths about me: I love to touch the people I care about. Live inside them if you will. I’ve never been in a long-term relationship. I don’t even think I’ve been in love. Despite my chaotic sagas, I’m still…
Butter is Blue
When I was growing up, Blue Band Original was crème de la crème of spreads. The ads were everywhere. There was nothing more delicious than some rich Blue Band on two slices of white bread in a kid’s lunch box.…
Untethered
Three weeks ago, I told my mother I loved her for the last time. Two days later, I was living my greatest fear – she was gone. Now, I am one of those daughters, without a mother. Our relationship…
Umbrellas and Butterflies
Warning. Annoying How I Met Your Mother reference ahead. Listen to the Post Instead 🙂 … A little over a year ago, I think I got my heart broken. I say I think because I’m not even sure if it…
The Best of Fine Dining in Lagos: Talindo Steak House
One of the greatest culinary gifts to the people of Lagos and Abuja is Lost in Lagos’ Restaurant week. Every year, Lost in Lagos partners with several restaurants and a payment partner to provide diners with a 3-course menu at…
Hotel Review: Bogobiri House Staycation
Ah, Lagos. You have taken so much from me. But within this chaos, there are a few rather visible gems that have come to feel like home. One of these is Bogobori House. The little 16 room boutique hotel in…
Feeling 22
I’ve waited so many years to yell out these Taylor Swift lyrics. 2020 is the year I turned 22, and I’m not sure what I was expecting. Here’s where I thought I would be now – living with the love…
Fear of Flying
Trigger Warning: Travel after sexual assault. How do you do it? . “Love, you should be more spontaneous”. You don’t get to decide that for me…. I know it seems odd, my need for constant planning, to control situations…
An Anxious Girl’s Guide to Eating Out in Lagos
The chaos of Lagos is universal knowledge. For people who don’t mind the extra insanity, it’s a “hot and happening” place. But when you’re dealing with anxiety, just eating out can be a mission. Here are a few ways to…
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